I remember one of the first times I said "yes" to God. It was 2006 and I was involved with an organization called Campus Crusade for Christ. This organization facilitates discipleship programs all over the country called Summer Projects and I was given an opportunity to participate in one.
I had been working full time at a bank, and I heavily relied on that income stream to get me through college. Going on this Summer Project made no logical sense. Quitting my bank job to live in a hotel in Branson, MO with 40 other college students and work at McDonald's...seriously? Oh yeah, and I had to raise over $2,000 to do it!
As crazy as it seemed, God graciously gave me the courage to take a step of faith. I raised the money, quit my job, loaded up my pickup, and moved to the tourism capital of the Midwest to flip burgers and learn more about Jesus. I could go on for days about how God stretched and grew me that summer, but as I look back on the experience today I remember this: God is faithful, and being obedient to His call creates LASTING reward.
I got back from Branson after a life changing summer and guess what? I got my job back at the bank...and I got a raise! Seriously God?! This was proof that God is bigger than I ever understood.
The following summer I quit my job again to work at a camp in Panama City Beach, and you guessed it...I got my bank job back. The Lord had now showed up two summers in a row to prove his adoration, grace, and faithfulness towards me. The next summer was Africa, followed by the next summer working camps in North Carolina and California. Nine months later God opened a door to do what I do now in Orlando. You bet your tail I said yes to that one!
Each of these yes's resulted in immense growth and beautiful friendships. Saying yes was by no means easy, but I can say with conviction that each yes was significantly easier than the one prior.
The God of this universe loves you deeply. The Creator of heaven and earth bought you at the price of Jesus' blood, and He desires to use you in a very tangible way.
What is it that God wants you to say yes to today? Is it starting the business you've always wanted to start? Is it supporting an organization financially that God has put heavy on your heart? Is it giving a 100% tip to the waitress that's having a rough night? The first big "yes" will probably be the hardest. Rip the bandaid off, buckle up, and enjoy the ride! You won't regret it.
Go and love the tar outta someone today. You guys are incredible.
James
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -Mark Twain
Monday, October 22, 2012
Monday, July 30, 2012
Snow plows in July
I've spent the better half of the last month preparing for a large event that we just finished in Indianapolis. On race day, all of the planning comes together and ideally results in seamless execution. Inevitably, however, something always seems to happen that could have never been foreseen. Yesterday was no exception.
The morning was going great. Our helicopter operation was running flawlessly thanks to Jake and Jim, and our ground activity was moving right along thanks to an incredible team of men. Then the clock struck 9am and the wheels started to fall off...literally.
I got a phone call letting me know that one of our buses had run over a snow plow that was parked in the back lot of our client's property. Yes, you read that right...a snow plow. Needless to say, the snow plow won.
From that point forward, my iPhone kicked into high gear. I made approximately 40 phone calls within the next hour, trying to work through a solution with the bus vendor, the officers facilitating our escorts, and our on-site team. I was pacing, sweating, and screaming a little more than I care to admit. I started to beat myself up. I could've made decisions quicker...I could have done "this" instead of "that".
It was right around 11:30am when it got through my thick skull that God was trying to teach me something. Why don't I pace, sweat, or scream about other issues? Like kids that won't get to eat today. Issues that involve little girls being sold to the highest bidder. Problems like entire communities that don't have clean water to drink.
Did God want me to work diligently to find a solution for our clients? Of course He did. But there are other things that He wants me to work diligently towards as well...like actively engaging a hurting world.
I woke up this morning to see that God gave me another day. This day comes with a new perspective.
Love well,
James
Sunday, July 15, 2012
I need to love better. So here's the plan...
I've recently started reading a book called "Love Does" by Bob Goff and it's been stirring my heart in a very cool way. This book has made me painfully aware of the fact that I do very little, most days nothing at all, to love with action.
1 John 3:18 says this: "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth."
I don't really have a tough time loving people with my words. Whether it's a text message, a Facebook note, or a verbal interaction, I'm pretty good at letting people know why I love them. My struggle comes in the "doing". I'm typically the last person to volunteer to do something for someone that in any way makes me uncomfortable. I can tell someone they're awesome until I'm blue in the face, but when it comes time to show them love with my actions, I'm nowhere to be found.
I was struck yesterday with the thought of how much "love" someone gets on their birthday. People do crazy things to celebrate the day a friend or family member entered this world, but there's no reason why anyone should only get to feel special, cared for, and valued on one day of the year. I am personally committing to making sure that this is NOT the case for five individuals throughout the remainder of 2012.
Involving as many people as possible, we're going to make sure that these five folks have a day that they will never forget. They will lay their head on their pillow that night having no question that they are not only loved by countless people on earth, but that they are loved with reckless abandon by their Creator.
Flowers will be delivered, letters and notes will be written, and parties will be thrown. Songs will be created, cars will be decorated, and PA announcements will happen in grocery stores. All of this will be done in an effort to put hands and feet to the verb spelled L-O-V-E.
Love is action. Let's do it.
James
What's the craziest thing you've ever done to show someone you love them? Leave comments on the Facebook post, reply to the tweet, or leave the comment under this post on the blog. I'm going to need all the suggestions I can get!
1 John 3:18 says this: "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth."
I don't really have a tough time loving people with my words. Whether it's a text message, a Facebook note, or a verbal interaction, I'm pretty good at letting people know why I love them. My struggle comes in the "doing". I'm typically the last person to volunteer to do something for someone that in any way makes me uncomfortable. I can tell someone they're awesome until I'm blue in the face, but when it comes time to show them love with my actions, I'm nowhere to be found.
I was struck yesterday with the thought of how much "love" someone gets on their birthday. People do crazy things to celebrate the day a friend or family member entered this world, but there's no reason why anyone should only get to feel special, cared for, and valued on one day of the year. I am personally committing to making sure that this is NOT the case for five individuals throughout the remainder of 2012.
Involving as many people as possible, we're going to make sure that these five folks have a day that they will never forget. They will lay their head on their pillow that night having no question that they are not only loved by countless people on earth, but that they are loved with reckless abandon by their Creator.
Flowers will be delivered, letters and notes will be written, and parties will be thrown. Songs will be created, cars will be decorated, and PA announcements will happen in grocery stores. All of this will be done in an effort to put hands and feet to the verb spelled L-O-V-E.
Love is action. Let's do it.
James
What's the craziest thing you've ever done to show someone you love them? Leave comments on the Facebook post, reply to the tweet, or leave the comment under this post on the blog. I'm going to need all the suggestions I can get!
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Personal Mission Statement
I finally put my personal mission statement on paper. And by paper, I mean a 'note' on my phone. Here it goes...
"I will be a man that loves God in such a way that people around me can't help but notice. I will intentionally seek out men wiser than myself, inviting them to speak life into me. As I grow through God's Word, time in prayer, and the molding from mentors, I pledge to share that growth with other men. I will lead by serving. I will challenge others to operate out of their God-given gifts. I will encourage, empower, and believe in the dreams of the people in my life. I will strive for financial freedom so that I can give generously, believing that it is better to give than receive. I will forgive quickly, lean on grace, and do my best to love well. I will do these things while surrounding myself in biblical community, understanding that life is not meant to be lived in isolation."
I'm looking to get this put on canvas with some cool calligraphy. If you know of anyone that can do that for me, let me know!
Love you guys.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
When you're really pissed off...love anyway
Anger is not an emotion that I feel often, but today I felt it. Without going into great detail, I'll tell you that a decision was made that I did not agree with. I took this decision very personally. I felt hurt, unvalued, discouraged, along with a laundry list of other negative emotions.
Was it wrong for me to feel those emotions? I don't think so. Is it wrong for me to respond out of those emotions? Yes. Here's why...
My reading plan on YouVersion has me in 1 Corinthians right now, and today was chapter 13. That's right, the sappy love chapter that you hear at EVERY wedding that's ever taken place. The verses I hear most are 4-7 (Love is patient, love is kind, etc.) Surprisingly, these verses aren't what God used to shake me up tonight. Instead, God punched me square in the mouth with the first 3 verses in this chapter.
"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing." 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
I 'm amazed at how clearly Paul communicated this message to the church in Corinth. He makes it seem so simple. No matter how much knowledge I have, how much money I give away, how many gifts or talents I've been given, it's all worthless without love. If I don't love, I am nothing.
God knew that I needed to hear this today. He knew that I'd been hurt and He lovingly told me that my response to that pain should not be bitterness or spite, but love.
Is it the end of the world because the decision mentioned above was made? Of course not. The sun will come up tomorrow and life will go on. This doesn't mean, however, that the emotions I felt weren't real or justified. So in the reality and the pain of the emotions that I'm feeling in this moment, I will choose love as my response.
People get hurt every single day, whether it's because of a decision that was made, a comment that was said, or the actions of someone close to you. That pain is real and I don't want to discredit that. The test in character and in faith comes in our response to that pain.
My challenge to you is this: the next time someone pisses you off, respond in love. This won't be easy to do. In fact, it's going to be EXTREMELY hard. However, I genuinely believe that if we do it, God will be right next to us...giving us strength, affirming us, and loving us.
Life is too short to live it angry. Love well.
James
Friday, December 30, 2011
2011: My Year in Review
Motivated by my roommates, Ryan and Matt, I decided to put together a list of my top ten experiences in 2011. This has been an eye opening endeavor for me and if you've never done something like it, I would strongly encourage you to do so. As you intentionally look back on your year, you will rediscover how God has poured His blessing on your life. I promise you won't regret this exercise.
The summer of 2011 marked the first time I set sail on a cruise. My friend Adam and I enjoyed a 3 night trip to the Bahamas and we enjoyed every second of it. From all you can eat food, to Adam dressing up like a woman (I promise there's a good explanation), we couldn't have asked for a better time. If you've never taken the time to take a cruise, don't hesitate. You'll love it.
When I first moved to Orlando, I made it a priority to find men a few years younger than me in an effort to help them grow and develop in their faith. I was extremely fortunate to find Esteban and Kellen within just a few weeks of being in Orlando last year and I never imagined I would find young men with such integrity and character. Unfortunately, they lived on the other side of Orlando and meeting with them on a regular basis became pretty difficult.
At the beginning of 2011, I began to search for ways to invest in younger guys a little closer to my side of town. YoungLife is a student ministry that engages students all over the country, with a heavy emphasis on reaching students that would typically never step foot in a church or youth group. After discovering that this organization was ministering to students at a high school just 5 minutes from my office, it became obvious that YoungLife would be where I plugged in. The volunteers, staff, and students have been such a blessing this year and I can't adequately explain how much I've loved partnering with them in reaching people for the Gospel of Christ.
In order to give an accurate description of this stellar event, I'll have to start by explaining the origin of what we've come to call "Believe It". It was a warm day in December of 2010 (I love Florida) when 2 of my closest friends and I decided to take the day off work. After deliberating how we would make good use of the day, Ryan realized that he was able to get us into the Ripley's Believe It or Not museum. I won't lie to you...the museum sucked. However, the ridiculous facts and displays that we saw in that place stemmed a quote that all of us would repeat countless times throughout the day. Any time one of us saw something that was absolutely insane, we wouldn't hesitate to say some version of the following statement: "Oh my gosh, I don't believe this!" To which the other 2 would immediately scream in unison, "Believe it!!". Believe It 2010 had been born and the rest of the day was filled with non-stop cheap entertainment, yelling "Believe It" as often as we could.
Fast forward to another warm December day in 2011 (seriously, Florida is awesome)...
Ryan, coming through in the clutch once again, managed to get my roommates and I into Universal Studios absolutely free. Not only that, but he had a booklet full of coupons that would let us eat extremely cheap. On our way to the park, we recognized that this day would be dubbed "Believe It 2011" and determined that we would make "Believe It" an annual event.
It was no surprise that Believe It 2011 blew our socks off. Roller coasters, pictures with the Grinch, and even the Blue Man Group show (deeply discounted of course) made this a day that none of us will soon forget. Getting to experience this with some of the greatest guys I know made this a bigger blessing than I deserve.
Ryan, Adam, and Matt: You guys are unbelievable (believe it!). I can't thank God enough for the role that each of you play in my life. Thank you for letting Christ shine in you.
Entreleadership is a book written by Dave Ramsey and I finished reading it last month. If you are interested in business at all, this is an absolute MUST read. Dave walks you through practical business processes that have drastically affected how I think about my job. Vision casting, Hiring and firing, working with vendors, team management, sales and marketing, the importance of communication, cost control...Dave covers everything you could possibly want to know about running a business, and he does it from a position of having successfully owned and operated a thriving company for the last 20 years. This isn't a book on business theory, his advice is road tested and it works!
I realize that I sound like an infomercial right now, but this book has undoubtedly had the 2nd biggest impact on my life, with the first being the Bible. I loved it so much that I bought a copy for my CEO and the directors of each of our divisions. I truly believe that the principles taught in this book are going to launch our company to the next level. I'm so excited to see where we go in 2012.
Thanks Dave!
If I've learned anything valuable at all in my adult life, it's been this: everyone needs a mentor. Someone older, wiser, with more life experience that can help steer you from making too many boneheaded decisions.
In 2011, God decided to put not one, but two incredibly Godly older men in my life. I'm convinced this is the Lord's way of telling me that I make way too many boneheaded decisions. One mentor just wasn't enough :). Alan Schutz and Chad Cahill have played an undeniable role in my professional development, but more importantly, my personal development. I know with 100% certainty that the sound wisdom these two men offer me stems from the intimacy of their relationship with Christ.
Alan serves as the National Director of Priority Associates, which is the marketplace ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ. Anytime someone is the national director of anything, it likely means they're more awesome than the average bear...it's obviously true in Alan's case. Alan blows me away with his ability to connect with ANYONE. His laid back demeanor, his ability to listen, his heart to develop men, and the way he leads his family are just a few of the reasons why I love him as much as I do. I joke that if he ever thinks about moving out of Orlando, I'll chain him to his front porch. He thinks I'm kidding...little does he know that I've already bought the chain.
Chad runs a custom home building firm, is a husband to Bridget, and fathers a youngster named Colt. I love Chad's unashamed honesty. I never leave a lunch thinking that Chad held back, and I cherish that transparency so much. He is extremely passionate about leading his young family in a manner that honors the Lord, and since I don't have a family to lead just yet, that's crucial for me to witness. He's setting a bar for me and he doesn't even know it. He is a generous giver, a strategic thinker, and a great story teller. His friendship has been invaluable this last year and I can't wait to see it grow.
Back in August, we decided that the small 2 bedroom apartment that we'd been living in was no longer up to par. Matt and I jumped ship and moved into a house just minutes away from the airport. We were joined in the move by Ryan who formerly lived on the other side of town, Adam who made the move all the way from West Virginia, and Christian who was moving to Orlando from a town an hour north.
The house is a bit farther from all of our jobs, but the upside is more than worth it. Not only did I get to move in with my best friends, but I got to move into a house in a great area, with tons of space to have people visit, that also had the perfect room for our movie theatre...yep, you read that right. The bonus room in our new house is equipped with stadium seating (3 couches, 2 on risers) a 110 inch projection screen with HD projector, a PS3, Bose surround sound, and recessed lighting on a fader. Needless to say, this setup is perfect for a premium movie watching experience without having to pay $12 at the local AMC.
This house has been the home of countless late night chats, game nights, gingerbread extravaganzas, and movie marathons. Buddy the Elf has even been spotted partying under our roof. I couldn't ask for a better home and for better guys to share it with. To the men of Mortier Cinema and the guests that frequent it, I love you guys.
To so many people, their job is simply a way to pay their bills. They show up, clock in, perform monotonous tasks, clock out, and wait in anxious anticipation for the weekend to arrive.
I am blessed beyond measure to say that this is not my story. I don't deserve for one second to enjoy my work as much as I do. In 2011, I stepped into more responsibility than I ever thought I would be trusted with. After learning the ropes my first year with the company, I had the opportunity to oversee my division's entire budget and run the helicopter business as if it were my own. I got to make decisions that I never imagined I would be able to make.
Not only did I get to manage the business from the office by hiring temp help, reviewing financials, quoting clients, and selecting vendors , but I was also blessed to manage our business on site at various events. Traveling to over 25 events in 2011 and flying over 85,000 miles, I was able to build relationships with several vendors and temp help staff. I'm overwhelmed at the quality of men I had the pleasure of working with this past year.
In 2012, I will be attempting to expand our business into the music and entertainment industry with my dear friend Lucas Pinckard. I'm ecstatic about taking our standard of excellence and quality of service to a market that we've never before entered. The possibilities are almost overwhelming and I can't wait to see how God grows our business as we move forward.
I met Aven Pitts at the end of 2010 thanks to my great friend Ben Grande. Aven can make anyone with a heartbeat laugh, he does the right thing when nobody is looking, and he is constantly searching for ways to make people smile. Because of these things and many more, he has easily become one of my most valued friends.
Aven was responsible for introducing me to some amazing individuals in 2011. By inviting me to his small group bible study, I met a body of believers that have blessed me over and over again. Brady & Jennapher White, Joel Coffman, Rebekah Skates, Deanna Schaekel, Neal Faul, Brittany Tovado, and Taylor Allen: You guys are amazing. I value each one of you and I am so thankful to be a part of your community.
Aven also introduced me to several of his friends outside of the Bible study. Amy Boyd, Kriss Pugh, Justin Peters, Kayla Todd, Piper Williams, Alex Parish, and Nick Melvin: Your awesomeness blows my mind and I have loved getting to know you. I can't wait to grow our friendship in 2012.
#2: Makeever Wedding
I'm 25 years old and the lion's share of my friends are married, engaged, or about to buy the ring. That being said, I've been to more weddings than I care to count. As many weddings as I've been privileged to be a part of, none quite compared to the one that took place in Thomas, OK this past May.
My soul smiled bigger than it has in recent history when I saw two of my best friends pledge to spend the rest of their lives together. Corey and Brooke are undoubtedly two of the greatest people I know. They pursue Christ first, and each other second. They are full time missionaries with a college ministry called Student Mobilization and it's easy to see that they were made for it. They love people so well, and God is using their marriage to change lives every single day.
I knew both Corey and Brooke before they knew each other. Individually, they were full of compassion, disciplined, passionate, and servant hearted, so it was no surprise when they met and instantly hit it off. Their bold intention to keep Christ in the middle of their dating relationship was encouraging beyond belief and everyone could see it. When I found out that they decided to tie the knot, I was ecstatic. Watching them say "I do" was overwhelmingly surreal for me, and I'm not sure I'll feel an emotion similar to that until my own wedding day.
Corey and Brooke: You are an inspiration and encouragement to every person that knows you. Continue passionately pursuing your Creator and inviting those around you to see the pursuit. You're changing the world one day at a time and I'm honored to call you friends. I love both of you more than you know.
Like so many young men and women, I was raised by a single parent. My mom wore all the hats as I was growing up, and my father was a distant figure in my life. I would see him once or twice a year, but there was very little depth to our relationship.
4 years ago, my dad moved from Texas to Oklahoma. I was in college at the time and I was hesitant to let my dad into my life. He had been a source of disappointment over and over again during my childhood, and I wasn't jumping out of my seat to invite that disappointment into my adult life. Slowly but surely, God softened my heart toward my dad. We began talking pretty frequently and I realized that I genuinely enjoyed his company.
Our relationship was growing at a pace I never anticipated when I took the job in Orlando. I thought for sure that I would move across the country and watch this new relationship fade, but I couldn't have been more wrong. I continued talking to my dad multiple times a week, and the relationship continued to flourish.
On a visit to Oklahoma this past October, a prayer I'd been praying for four years was answered. I was in the room when my dad stepped into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It started with a simple conversation about his siblings and it ended with a move of the Holy Spirit that couldn't be denied. The room was full of tears and emotion as my dad's eternity took a sharp turn for the best. Watching a man realize that he no longer would be doing life on his own gave me a rich reminder of the value of my own salvation.
In the three short months since my dad's commitment to Christ, I've seen his heart change in ways I never thought possible. I am so proud to say that my father is now a faithful tither, and he is in the process of breaking some major addictions that have held him captive for over thirty years. Watching God redeem His broken children through Jesus is beautiful.
Dad: I love you so much, and knowing that I get to spend eternity with you brings me a joy that I can't explain with words.
#10: Cruise
The summer of 2011 marked the first time I set sail on a cruise. My friend Adam and I enjoyed a 3 night trip to the Bahamas and we enjoyed every second of it. From all you can eat food, to Adam dressing up like a woman (I promise there's a good explanation), we couldn't have asked for a better time. If you've never taken the time to take a cruise, don't hesitate. You'll love it.
#9: YoungLife
When I first moved to Orlando, I made it a priority to find men a few years younger than me in an effort to help them grow and develop in their faith. I was extremely fortunate to find Esteban and Kellen within just a few weeks of being in Orlando last year and I never imagined I would find young men with such integrity and character. Unfortunately, they lived on the other side of Orlando and meeting with them on a regular basis became pretty difficult.
At the beginning of 2011, I began to search for ways to invest in younger guys a little closer to my side of town. YoungLife is a student ministry that engages students all over the country, with a heavy emphasis on reaching students that would typically never step foot in a church or youth group. After discovering that this organization was ministering to students at a high school just 5 minutes from my office, it became obvious that YoungLife would be where I plugged in. The volunteers, staff, and students have been such a blessing this year and I can't adequately explain how much I've loved partnering with them in reaching people for the Gospel of Christ.
#8: Believe It 2011
In order to give an accurate description of this stellar event, I'll have to start by explaining the origin of what we've come to call "Believe It". It was a warm day in December of 2010 (I love Florida) when 2 of my closest friends and I decided to take the day off work. After deliberating how we would make good use of the day, Ryan realized that he was able to get us into the Ripley's Believe It or Not museum. I won't lie to you...the museum sucked. However, the ridiculous facts and displays that we saw in that place stemmed a quote that all of us would repeat countless times throughout the day. Any time one of us saw something that was absolutely insane, we wouldn't hesitate to say some version of the following statement: "Oh my gosh, I don't believe this!" To which the other 2 would immediately scream in unison, "Believe it!!". Believe It 2010 had been born and the rest of the day was filled with non-stop cheap entertainment, yelling "Believe It" as often as we could.
Fast forward to another warm December day in 2011 (seriously, Florida is awesome)...
Ryan, coming through in the clutch once again, managed to get my roommates and I into Universal Studios absolutely free. Not only that, but he had a booklet full of coupons that would let us eat extremely cheap. On our way to the park, we recognized that this day would be dubbed "Believe It 2011" and determined that we would make "Believe It" an annual event.
It was no surprise that Believe It 2011 blew our socks off. Roller coasters, pictures with the Grinch, and even the Blue Man Group show (deeply discounted of course) made this a day that none of us will soon forget. Getting to experience this with some of the greatest guys I know made this a bigger blessing than I deserve.
Ryan, Adam, and Matt: You guys are unbelievable (believe it!). I can't thank God enough for the role that each of you play in my life. Thank you for letting Christ shine in you.
#7: Entreleadership
Entreleadership is a book written by Dave Ramsey and I finished reading it last month. If you are interested in business at all, this is an absolute MUST read. Dave walks you through practical business processes that have drastically affected how I think about my job. Vision casting, Hiring and firing, working with vendors, team management, sales and marketing, the importance of communication, cost control...Dave covers everything you could possibly want to know about running a business, and he does it from a position of having successfully owned and operated a thriving company for the last 20 years. This isn't a book on business theory, his advice is road tested and it works!
I realize that I sound like an infomercial right now, but this book has undoubtedly had the 2nd biggest impact on my life, with the first being the Bible. I loved it so much that I bought a copy for my CEO and the directors of each of our divisions. I truly believe that the principles taught in this book are going to launch our company to the next level. I'm so excited to see where we go in 2012.
Thanks Dave!
#6: Mentors
If I've learned anything valuable at all in my adult life, it's been this: everyone needs a mentor. Someone older, wiser, with more life experience that can help steer you from making too many boneheaded decisions.
In 2011, God decided to put not one, but two incredibly Godly older men in my life. I'm convinced this is the Lord's way of telling me that I make way too many boneheaded decisions. One mentor just wasn't enough :). Alan Schutz and Chad Cahill have played an undeniable role in my professional development, but more importantly, my personal development. I know with 100% certainty that the sound wisdom these two men offer me stems from the intimacy of their relationship with Christ.
Alan serves as the National Director of Priority Associates, which is the marketplace ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ. Anytime someone is the national director of anything, it likely means they're more awesome than the average bear...it's obviously true in Alan's case. Alan blows me away with his ability to connect with ANYONE. His laid back demeanor, his ability to listen, his heart to develop men, and the way he leads his family are just a few of the reasons why I love him as much as I do. I joke that if he ever thinks about moving out of Orlando, I'll chain him to his front porch. He thinks I'm kidding...little does he know that I've already bought the chain.
Chad runs a custom home building firm, is a husband to Bridget, and fathers a youngster named Colt. I love Chad's unashamed honesty. I never leave a lunch thinking that Chad held back, and I cherish that transparency so much. He is extremely passionate about leading his young family in a manner that honors the Lord, and since I don't have a family to lead just yet, that's crucial for me to witness. He's setting a bar for me and he doesn't even know it. He is a generous giver, a strategic thinker, and a great story teller. His friendship has been invaluable this last year and I can't wait to see it grow.
#5: Mortier Cinema
Back in August, we decided that the small 2 bedroom apartment that we'd been living in was no longer up to par. Matt and I jumped ship and moved into a house just minutes away from the airport. We were joined in the move by Ryan who formerly lived on the other side of town, Adam who made the move all the way from West Virginia, and Christian who was moving to Orlando from a town an hour north.
The house is a bit farther from all of our jobs, but the upside is more than worth it. Not only did I get to move in with my best friends, but I got to move into a house in a great area, with tons of space to have people visit, that also had the perfect room for our movie theatre...yep, you read that right. The bonus room in our new house is equipped with stadium seating (3 couches, 2 on risers) a 110 inch projection screen with HD projector, a PS3, Bose surround sound, and recessed lighting on a fader. Needless to say, this setup is perfect for a premium movie watching experience without having to pay $12 at the local AMC.
This house has been the home of countless late night chats, game nights, gingerbread extravaganzas, and movie marathons. Buddy the Elf has even been spotted partying under our roof. I couldn't ask for a better home and for better guys to share it with. To the men of Mortier Cinema and the guests that frequent it, I love you guys.
#4: Dream Job
To so many people, their job is simply a way to pay their bills. They show up, clock in, perform monotonous tasks, clock out, and wait in anxious anticipation for the weekend to arrive.
I am blessed beyond measure to say that this is not my story. I don't deserve for one second to enjoy my work as much as I do. In 2011, I stepped into more responsibility than I ever thought I would be trusted with. After learning the ropes my first year with the company, I had the opportunity to oversee my division's entire budget and run the helicopter business as if it were my own. I got to make decisions that I never imagined I would be able to make.
Not only did I get to manage the business from the office by hiring temp help, reviewing financials, quoting clients, and selecting vendors , but I was also blessed to manage our business on site at various events. Traveling to over 25 events in 2011 and flying over 85,000 miles, I was able to build relationships with several vendors and temp help staff. I'm overwhelmed at the quality of men I had the pleasure of working with this past year.
In 2012, I will be attempting to expand our business into the music and entertainment industry with my dear friend Lucas Pinckard. I'm ecstatic about taking our standard of excellence and quality of service to a market that we've never before entered. The possibilities are almost overwhelming and I can't wait to see how God grows our business as we move forward.
#3: New Friends
I met Aven Pitts at the end of 2010 thanks to my great friend Ben Grande. Aven can make anyone with a heartbeat laugh, he does the right thing when nobody is looking, and he is constantly searching for ways to make people smile. Because of these things and many more, he has easily become one of my most valued friends.
Aven was responsible for introducing me to some amazing individuals in 2011. By inviting me to his small group bible study, I met a body of believers that have blessed me over and over again. Brady & Jennapher White, Joel Coffman, Rebekah Skates, Deanna Schaekel, Neal Faul, Brittany Tovado, and Taylor Allen: You guys are amazing. I value each one of you and I am so thankful to be a part of your community.
Aven also introduced me to several of his friends outside of the Bible study. Amy Boyd, Kriss Pugh, Justin Peters, Kayla Todd, Piper Williams, Alex Parish, and Nick Melvin: Your awesomeness blows my mind and I have loved getting to know you. I can't wait to grow our friendship in 2012.
Aven: Thanks for sharing the wealth. You and your friends have made this year an absolute blast.
I'm 25 years old and the lion's share of my friends are married, engaged, or about to buy the ring. That being said, I've been to more weddings than I care to count. As many weddings as I've been privileged to be a part of, none quite compared to the one that took place in Thomas, OK this past May.
My soul smiled bigger than it has in recent history when I saw two of my best friends pledge to spend the rest of their lives together. Corey and Brooke are undoubtedly two of the greatest people I know. They pursue Christ first, and each other second. They are full time missionaries with a college ministry called Student Mobilization and it's easy to see that they were made for it. They love people so well, and God is using their marriage to change lives every single day.
I knew both Corey and Brooke before they knew each other. Individually, they were full of compassion, disciplined, passionate, and servant hearted, so it was no surprise when they met and instantly hit it off. Their bold intention to keep Christ in the middle of their dating relationship was encouraging beyond belief and everyone could see it. When I found out that they decided to tie the knot, I was ecstatic. Watching them say "I do" was overwhelmingly surreal for me, and I'm not sure I'll feel an emotion similar to that until my own wedding day.
Corey and Brooke: You are an inspiration and encouragement to every person that knows you. Continue passionately pursuing your Creator and inviting those around you to see the pursuit. You're changing the world one day at a time and I'm honored to call you friends. I love both of you more than you know.
#1: Dad's Salvation
Like so many young men and women, I was raised by a single parent. My mom wore all the hats as I was growing up, and my father was a distant figure in my life. I would see him once or twice a year, but there was very little depth to our relationship.
4 years ago, my dad moved from Texas to Oklahoma. I was in college at the time and I was hesitant to let my dad into my life. He had been a source of disappointment over and over again during my childhood, and I wasn't jumping out of my seat to invite that disappointment into my adult life. Slowly but surely, God softened my heart toward my dad. We began talking pretty frequently and I realized that I genuinely enjoyed his company.
Our relationship was growing at a pace I never anticipated when I took the job in Orlando. I thought for sure that I would move across the country and watch this new relationship fade, but I couldn't have been more wrong. I continued talking to my dad multiple times a week, and the relationship continued to flourish.
On a visit to Oklahoma this past October, a prayer I'd been praying for four years was answered. I was in the room when my dad stepped into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It started with a simple conversation about his siblings and it ended with a move of the Holy Spirit that couldn't be denied. The room was full of tears and emotion as my dad's eternity took a sharp turn for the best. Watching a man realize that he no longer would be doing life on his own gave me a rich reminder of the value of my own salvation.
In the three short months since my dad's commitment to Christ, I've seen his heart change in ways I never thought possible. I am so proud to say that my father is now a faithful tither, and he is in the process of breaking some major addictions that have held him captive for over thirty years. Watching God redeem His broken children through Jesus is beautiful.
Dad: I love you so much, and knowing that I get to spend eternity with you brings me a joy that I can't explain with words.
In Closing,
If I had to choose one word to define my year, it would unquestionably be this...blessing. God has blessed my friendships, my work, my family, my ministry and every other area of my life. It's beyond my comprehension how a perfect God can lavish so much love on someone as imperfect as myself, but I'm grateful He does just that. Resting in the knowledge that Christ's blood covers my imperfection gives me hope and drives me to do everything in my power to honor the God that gave me life.
If you're still reading this, thank you for giving me your time. I hope the words above give you a rich respect for God's goodness and endless love. I pray that God blesses you in 2012 like He's never blessed you before.
Love well & shine bright,
James
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
30 Days of Encouragement: Day 3
Day 3:
My friend Kelsie Pinckard actively walks out Ephesians 5:3 and I took this day as an opportunity to tell her how much I appreciate the example that she's setting to everyone in her life. Kelsie and her boyfriend are taking a bold stance to keep their dating relationship free from sexual immorality. They're doing this simply by making the choice to refrain from kissing.
I know what you're thinking. "But James, that's just weird." My response is this: "Yeah it's weird, but normal doesn't seem to be working." Too many Christian relationships toy with where the boundary lies in regards to 'going too far' and I'm right there in that mix. I've seen boundaries come crashing down in an instant, regardless of how good the intention was to stay pure.
I absolutely love the stand that Kelsie and her boyfriend have chosen to take in an effort to honor the Lord and hurdle the obstacle of sexual purity. Thank you both for your steadfast faith, your obedience to pursue Christ before each other, and your willingness to go against the grain. I deeply respect and care for both of you. Thanks for reflecting Jesus.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
30 Days of Encouragement - Days 1 & 2
Day 1
My job took me to Richmond, VA last weekend for the NASCAR race and our company needed some extra help. I asked my friend Adam to bring some guys in from Huntington and I was extremely impressed with the quality of men he brought. Once the race was over and work was finished, I texted each one of the guys to tell them how much we appreciated them. You would be surprised how much encouragement can come from a simple text message. Adam, Patrick, Rich, and Alan: If you're reading this, thank you again. You guys are incredible and your walks with the Lord are an encouragement to me. Can't wait to work with you again!
Day 2
On this day, I had the opportunity to talk with a group of young men at an FCA Bible Study here in Orlando. We talked about an issue that isn't talked about nearly enough in our churches...the topic was pornography. We spent about an hour unpacking the numerous ways that Satan uses pornography and sexual addiction to drive a wedge in our relationship with the Lord. We talked about practical ways that we can hold each other accountable, and I encouraged them to lean on one other as they take a united stand against sexual immorality.
After the Bible Study we all went to Chick fil a, where I got to spend some time getting to know several of the students. I was blown away at the spiritual depth of one student in particular. His name is Matt and he's finishing up his junior year at Boone High School. Matt leads a group of his peers every morning before school and they simply pray. To be Matt's age and understand the importance and the power of prayer is amazing to me. Bringing his classmates alongside him in this spiritual discipline shows not only an incredible amount of leadership, it also reveals his genuine heart to love and communicate with our Savior. If you're reading this Matt, thank you for playing an active part in growing God's Kingdom on earth. You are an inspiration to more people than you know.
If you are fortunate enough to know Adam, Patrick, Rich, Alan, or Matt, make sure to send them a note and let them know how amazing you think they are. Never discredit the power of your encouragement.
Peace, Love, and Licorice,
James
My job took me to Richmond, VA last weekend for the NASCAR race and our company needed some extra help. I asked my friend Adam to bring some guys in from Huntington and I was extremely impressed with the quality of men he brought. Once the race was over and work was finished, I texted each one of the guys to tell them how much we appreciated them. You would be surprised how much encouragement can come from a simple text message. Adam, Patrick, Rich, and Alan: If you're reading this, thank you again. You guys are incredible and your walks with the Lord are an encouragement to me. Can't wait to work with you again!
Day 2
On this day, I had the opportunity to talk with a group of young men at an FCA Bible Study here in Orlando. We talked about an issue that isn't talked about nearly enough in our churches...the topic was pornography. We spent about an hour unpacking the numerous ways that Satan uses pornography and sexual addiction to drive a wedge in our relationship with the Lord. We talked about practical ways that we can hold each other accountable, and I encouraged them to lean on one other as they take a united stand against sexual immorality.
After the Bible Study we all went to Chick fil a, where I got to spend some time getting to know several of the students. I was blown away at the spiritual depth of one student in particular. His name is Matt and he's finishing up his junior year at Boone High School. Matt leads a group of his peers every morning before school and they simply pray. To be Matt's age and understand the importance and the power of prayer is amazing to me. Bringing his classmates alongside him in this spiritual discipline shows not only an incredible amount of leadership, it also reveals his genuine heart to love and communicate with our Savior. If you're reading this Matt, thank you for playing an active part in growing God's Kingdom on earth. You are an inspiration to more people than you know.
If you are fortunate enough to know Adam, Patrick, Rich, Alan, or Matt, make sure to send them a note and let them know how amazing you think they are. Never discredit the power of your encouragement.
Peace, Love, and Licorice,
James
Sunday, May 1, 2011
30 Days of Encouragement
It was the summer of 2006 in the drive thru at Taco Bell when it clicked for me...the moment when I realized the importance of encouragement. The words came from a close friend and they weren't complex. He simply told me the gift he saw in me.
As I reflected on the kind words from my friend that night I read a passage in Romans that says this: "We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully."
Something inside of me came alive when I read that passage of scripture. We have all been uniquely gifted by our Creator. We all have something to offer this world and what we have to offer is good.
I began to couple my recent revelation that we all have a gift, with a verse in Hebrews 10. "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching." When I looked at these two passages in Romans and Hebrews, I noticed something huge. We have been given a powerful opportunity to call out the gifts and talents that we see in the people that God has placed in our lives!
In light of this eye opening realization, I decided to try something. As awkward as I thought it would be, I started intentionally telling people the gifts I saw in them. I realized that as I encouraged the people around me in their specific gifts, they started operating out of them more and more. Friends that were naturally servant hearted started serving more. Friends that were filled with wisdom began to share that wisdom, and share it often. Friends gifted in showing grace and mercy, became even more gracious and merciful.
In the month of May, I will be challenging myself to encourage at least one person a day and I want to bring you guys along for the journey. In order to do this, I'll be blogging about the experience throughout the month. My intent in sharing this with you is not to boast of what I'm doing, but in hopes of revealing some simple and effective methods of encouragement. I'm praying that this experience empowers you to build up and affirm individuals in your life, causing those that you're encouraging to be a bigger blessing than they already are.
You guys are incredible and I love you more than you know.
James
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Time to Stop Acting Like a Pharisee
This might be the hardest blog I've ever written. Self righteousness is a topic that I refrain from talking about, because it's what I struggle with most. I write this with the intent of being as transparent and vulnerable as I can possibly be...with the hope that I will find accountability and growth.
Here it goes...
I've been told more times than I'd like to count how great of a guy I am. How encouraging I am, how nice I am, how well I connect with people. I love hearing these things. As sick and demented as it is, I thrive on hearing how awesome I am.
I just left a Bible study this afternoon where we unpacked Luke 7:36-50. It's the story of Jesus anointing a sinful woman (likely a prostitute) while he was eating in the home of a pharisee (Simon). I'll let you read the passage yourself, but I'll share with you the thing that struck me most...
It's outrageously clear that Jesus is more offended by Simon's self righteousness and judgement toward the woman, than he is with the outward and apparent sin of the prostitute. The woman recognizes her sin, and unashamedly lavishes her affection on Jesus. She wipes Jesus' feet with her tears and hair, kisses his feet, as well as pouring valuable perfume on him.
Jesus' response to the woman...the forgiveness of her sins.
At the end of today's Bible study, the facilitator asked who we identified most with...the pharisee or the woman? I, undoubtedly, identified with the pharisee. I see my encouraging nature, the wisdom I've gained from God's Word, my relational gifting...and I take the credit as if I'm worthy of having these qualities. Romans 3:23 makes it clear, however, that in and of myself I am unworthy.
Here comes the beauty...
Everything good in me, every gift or talent that I have, has been given to me out of God's magnificent grace and love for me. "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast."
I hate that I can so easily take credit for things I have no place taking credit, but it's so hard for me to recognize my own sinfulness. It's difficult for me to see my stubborness, my selfishness, the judgement I place on others, or my lack of compassion for the less fortunate.
I'll sum this up by asking you to pray for me.
Pray that my response to Jesus be similar to that of the sinful woman. That I actively lavish my love and affection on Him with my heart, my mind, my soul, my emotions, and my actions. Pray that I become aware of sinful areas in my life - not so I can beat myself up for sinning - but so I can recognize the magnitude of the grace I've been given. Pray that in response to the recognition of my sin, that I remove it from my life.
Being a pharisee sucks. Lucky for me, God's grace wins.
James
Here it goes...
I've been told more times than I'd like to count how great of a guy I am. How encouraging I am, how nice I am, how well I connect with people. I love hearing these things. As sick and demented as it is, I thrive on hearing how awesome I am.
I just left a Bible study this afternoon where we unpacked Luke 7:36-50. It's the story of Jesus anointing a sinful woman (likely a prostitute) while he was eating in the home of a pharisee (Simon). I'll let you read the passage yourself, but I'll share with you the thing that struck me most...
It's outrageously clear that Jesus is more offended by Simon's self righteousness and judgement toward the woman, than he is with the outward and apparent sin of the prostitute. The woman recognizes her sin, and unashamedly lavishes her affection on Jesus. She wipes Jesus' feet with her tears and hair, kisses his feet, as well as pouring valuable perfume on him.
Jesus' response to the woman...the forgiveness of her sins.
At the end of today's Bible study, the facilitator asked who we identified most with...the pharisee or the woman? I, undoubtedly, identified with the pharisee. I see my encouraging nature, the wisdom I've gained from God's Word, my relational gifting...and I take the credit as if I'm worthy of having these qualities. Romans 3:23 makes it clear, however, that in and of myself I am unworthy.
Here comes the beauty...
Everything good in me, every gift or talent that I have, has been given to me out of God's magnificent grace and love for me. "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast."
I hate that I can so easily take credit for things I have no place taking credit, but it's so hard for me to recognize my own sinfulness. It's difficult for me to see my stubborness, my selfishness, the judgement I place on others, or my lack of compassion for the less fortunate.
I'll sum this up by asking you to pray for me.
Pray that my response to Jesus be similar to that of the sinful woman. That I actively lavish my love and affection on Him with my heart, my mind, my soul, my emotions, and my actions. Pray that I become aware of sinful areas in my life - not so I can beat myself up for sinning - but so I can recognize the magnitude of the grace I've been given. Pray that in response to the recognition of my sin, that I remove it from my life.
Being a pharisee sucks. Lucky for me, God's grace wins.
James
Monday, November 1, 2010
Passion #2: Discipleship
Back in September I began a blog series with the intent to unpack 5 things that I'm passionate about. It's been 2 months since I talked about operating out of our God given gifts, so I figured it was about time to dive into passion #2....discipleship (mentorship if you like the less "churchy" word).
During my college years, I was blessed to be on the receiving end of several Godly men pouring out their life into mine. There was nothing overly complex about the time I spent with these men. We didn't cover a specific curriculum or even have an agenda when we met. We simply shared our lives with one another. I learned how to be a patient friend, an understanding father, and a gracious husband just by hearing the stories of men with a little more experience at this thing called life. Words will never do justice to my thanks for men like David Brown, Ketric Newell, and Kent Dobkins.
In response to the blessing I received from David, Ketric, and Kent, I will devote my life to pouring into men. I will do this in an effort to expose the incredible blessing that God has for us by walking out a lifestyle of love. I will never stop seeking mentors in my own life, always looking for a way to learn and develop into a Godlier man.
My charge to you is this:
1. Get a mentor. Find someone you respect and ask to spend time with them. Ask questions, soak up wisdom, be transparent.
2. Mentor someone. How do I find someone to mentor?
A.) Build a relationship with someone in your church's youth group, singles ministry, or newlyweds class.
B.) Work with an organization like Big Brother Big Sisters that pairs mentors with children in need of a positive role model.
C.) Parter with a ministry like Campus Crusade for Christ or YoungLife.
D.) Seek out a younger co-worker
If you're telling yourself you have nothing to offer, I would strongly disagree. There are countless men and women that simply want someone to spend time with them. It doesn't need to be complicated. There are no rules.
What do we talk about?
Share your story. Share how God has moved in your life. Share practical advice as to how you've handled specific challenges. Show up, listen, love, and watch God work.
In spite of our own brokenness, God still chooses to use us to reflect His love and grace to the world. Let us be a people that accomplish this task one relationship at a time. Person by person, we can change the world.
Peace, love, and chocolate pudding,
James
Monday, October 4, 2010
Do you know Chris Wallace?
NASCAR set up shop in Kansas City this past weekend, which allowed me to spend some time with my best friend from high school, Chris Wallace, who conveniently lives 20 minutes from the race track. I have always had a tremendous amount of respect for Chris, and spending the last few days with him made me realize how much of a blessing he's been in my life.
Chris can be defined by his steadfast character, unwavering faith in our Creator, and passionate love for his family. He is loyal, dependable, honest, and genuinely cares about others. In addition to these incredible qualities, Chris was instrumental in my spiritual development early on in my walk with Christ. I will never be able to thank him enough for the example he set, and the standard that he held me to as I began living my life with the intent to imitate Jesus.
Chris shared something with me this weekend that I won't soon forget. He told me about 2 specific passages of Scripture that are radically shifting his views on a particular issue. An issue that, until a few weeks ago, he held a very strong opinion. As he was sharing this with me, I realized how often we, as Christians, read Scripture through the lens of what we want it to say. We twist and contort God's Word until it aligns with our personal thoughts and views. I love that Chris is doing the exact opposite of this common trend. He's allowing Scripture to change him. It's obvious that this is a difficult process, but it's so easy to see that the Lord is refining and growing him deep at his core.
Thank you so much for being the man God has called you to be, Chris. It's impacting people in ways you may never know.
Here comes the fun part...
If you know Chris, leave a comment or send him a facebook message to let him know how he's been a blessing in your life. It can be a conversation you've had with him, a memory he's a part of, or simply anything he's done that has put a smile on your face.
Friday, September 3, 2010
Passion
Over the course of the last few years, I have become passionate about several different ideas and principles. My next few blogs will unpack 5 of these passions and the reason behind why I feel so strongly about each of them.
Passion #1: Operating out of your God given gifts
I remember the first time someone told me that I was gifted in the area of encouragement. It was the summer of 2006 and I was participating in Campus Crusade for Christ's Summer Discipleship Program in Branson, MO. My good friend David Dunn was leading worship for the program that summer and we spent many days at the Taco Bell across the street from the hotel where we lived. On one particular day, while we were waiting in the Taco Bell drive thru, Dave looked at me and said something that I will never forget. He simply said, "James, you are the most encouraging person I've ever met." I thanked him for the kind words and we moved on with our conversation.
Later that night I read a verse in Romans that shook me up in an incredible way. Romans 12:6-8 states, "We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully."
If I were to paraphrase this set of verses it would read something like this, "You have each been given unique gifts, so USE them!" These verses give us such a simple, yet powerful command.
Up until this point in my life, I was naturally an encouraging person...it's how God uniquely gifted me. Dave's statement to me on this particular day, however, turned me from a NATURAL encourager to an INTENTIONAL encourager. You see, before this day I had absolutely no idea that the words I spoke gave life to people. I simply spoke encouraging words every now and then because it was natural for me to do so. I had no idea it was a unique gift that was given to me by our Creator for the purpose of building up and empowering the people in my life.
The second I read the above mentioned verse and coupled it with the words that Dave spoke to me earlier that day, something inside me changed. In that moment I realized that God had tasked me with a massive responsibility. I now knew that it was part of my purpose to intentionally encourage and affirm the people God placed around me, empowering them to operate out of their God given giftedness.
I immediately put this new revelation into practice and the results were mesmerizing. I began telling specific friends what I saw in them and as a result I saw them using their gifts more and more. Friends that were naturally servant hearted, generous, and compassionate began serving more, giving bigger, and loving deeper.
The heart behind this entire post is to say 2 things:
According to Scripture, each and every one of you have been gifted by the God of the Universe. Spend some time today to think and pray about what gifts you've been given. After you've done this, start intentionally using those gifts to bless the people around you. There is no reason why we should be withholding our gifts from the world...they were given to us for a reason!
Secondly, I want to ask you all to be someone's "Dave" today. There is at least one positive characteristic in every single person with whom you interact. I challenge you to speak a life giving word to one of those individuals. Every time we see a positive quality and fail to acknowledge it to that person, we are robbing them of joy. Who in their right mind wants to be a joy robber?! You never know how much the words you speak can impact someone. So step away from the computer, pick up your phone, and tell someone the specific gifts you see in them...it may just change their life.
Let's change the world,
James
Passion #1: Operating out of your God given gifts
I remember the first time someone told me that I was gifted in the area of encouragement. It was the summer of 2006 and I was participating in Campus Crusade for Christ's Summer Discipleship Program in Branson, MO. My good friend David Dunn was leading worship for the program that summer and we spent many days at the Taco Bell across the street from the hotel where we lived. On one particular day, while we were waiting in the Taco Bell drive thru, Dave looked at me and said something that I will never forget. He simply said, "James, you are the most encouraging person I've ever met." I thanked him for the kind words and we moved on with our conversation.
Later that night I read a verse in Romans that shook me up in an incredible way. Romans 12:6-8 states, "We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully."
If I were to paraphrase this set of verses it would read something like this, "You have each been given unique gifts, so USE them!" These verses give us such a simple, yet powerful command.
Up until this point in my life, I was naturally an encouraging person...it's how God uniquely gifted me. Dave's statement to me on this particular day, however, turned me from a NATURAL encourager to an INTENTIONAL encourager. You see, before this day I had absolutely no idea that the words I spoke gave life to people. I simply spoke encouraging words every now and then because it was natural for me to do so. I had no idea it was a unique gift that was given to me by our Creator for the purpose of building up and empowering the people in my life.
The second I read the above mentioned verse and coupled it with the words that Dave spoke to me earlier that day, something inside me changed. In that moment I realized that God had tasked me with a massive responsibility. I now knew that it was part of my purpose to intentionally encourage and affirm the people God placed around me, empowering them to operate out of their God given giftedness.
I immediately put this new revelation into practice and the results were mesmerizing. I began telling specific friends what I saw in them and as a result I saw them using their gifts more and more. Friends that were naturally servant hearted, generous, and compassionate began serving more, giving bigger, and loving deeper.
The heart behind this entire post is to say 2 things:
According to Scripture, each and every one of you have been gifted by the God of the Universe. Spend some time today to think and pray about what gifts you've been given. After you've done this, start intentionally using those gifts to bless the people around you. There is no reason why we should be withholding our gifts from the world...they were given to us for a reason!
Secondly, I want to ask you all to be someone's "Dave" today. There is at least one positive characteristic in every single person with whom you interact. I challenge you to speak a life giving word to one of those individuals. Every time we see a positive quality and fail to acknowledge it to that person, we are robbing them of joy. Who in their right mind wants to be a joy robber?! You never know how much the words you speak can impact someone. So step away from the computer, pick up your phone, and tell someone the specific gifts you see in them...it may just change their life.
Let's change the world,
James
Monday, August 23, 2010
Home
I needed to pass some time in the airport this weekend and decided to make a video of all the things I miss about home. If you like the song in the background, it's because David Dunn is singing it. You can find more of Dave's music on iTunes and also on myspace at www.myspace.com/daviddunn.
Love you guys!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
40 Days of Giving: Days 38-40
Day 38: On this day I took one of the coolest high school seniors this side of the Mississippi, Esteban Peralta, to Planet Hollywood for lunch. After we grubbed, we enjoyed the rest of the afternoon at one of the Disney water parks. It is such a blessing to be able to be a part of Esteban's life. If you are not currently investing in the next generation, I would STRONGLY encourage you to do so. Not only does it bless the individual that you are spending time with, but it is guaranteed to bless you in more ways than you can possibly imagine.
There are several different ways you can meet students that would adore spending time with you:
*Volunteer at your church's student ministry.
*Contact your local YoungLife staffer and serve with them at the high school nearest you.
*Work with an organization such as Big Brothers Big Sisters, and they will parter you with a child in need of a positive role model and mentor. You can check out Big Brothers Big Sisters at www.bbbs.org
Day 39: My job took me to Boston for the NASCAR race in New Hampshire. As soon as I landed, I made my way to Fenway Park and had an absolute blast seeing first hand the history in that place. I spent some time at the Yawkey Way store across the street from the stadium and loaded up on souvenirs for my best friend back home, Mike Williams.
Day 40: My next door neighbor, Shelly Gates, and my good friend, James Rish, started a ministry a few months ago focusing on the needs of Orlando's homeless community. In an effort to support what God is doing through them, I gave them some cash to empower and encourage them to chase after what God has put on their hearts. The money was used to feed several hungry mouths, as well as turning on the electricity for our friends Rick and Lenny who recently were given a free apartment.
These last 40 days have done something to me that I can't find words to adequately explain. This experience has opened my eyes to the fact that God not only calls us, but equips us to give... and give generously.
Please don't walk away from this thinking that money is the only way you can change the world. Each and every one of you have been given specific gifts and passions that God yearns for you to use to expand His kingdom, regardless of your income.
We're not here long...so leave a footprint.
James
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
40 Days of Giving: Days 33-37
Day 33: I had the opportunity to treat one of my best friends, Ryan Eber, to some Buffalo Wild Wings. Love that place....and I love that dude.
Day 34: I gave $80 to an organization called Water4, which paid for an entire water well that will provide clean water to a community for years to come. This amazing non-profit puts water wells in rural parts of the world using parts and materials that can be found in nearby areas. This is beautiful because it allows the community to maintain the well long after the organization has placed it there. If you are interested in supporting what Christ is doing through Water4, please check out their website at www.water4.org.
Day 35: After house church, I took Ryan and Jenn to Denny's...good times were had by all.
Day 36: A few weeks ago I blogged about a book called "The Treasure Principle". At the end of the blog I offered to ship a copy of the book to anyone who wanted to be stretched in the area of generosity. Thanks to my roommate Matt and his multiple copies of the book, I sent the book to Megan in Ft. Worth. I hope God is using the book to radically shape you, Megan!
Day 37: On this day I went to dinner with my roommate, Danny. He is a great singer/songwriter and you can check out his music at www.dannyleggett.com.
Friday, July 16, 2010
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
40 Days of Giving: Days 23-27
Day 23:
My good friend, David Arute, and I were eating lunch in Scranton, PA when we struck up a conversation with our waitress, JP. She is a grad student studying art therapy at the nearby college. When she finishes school, JP will get to use her passion (art) to help children get through difficult times by analyzing the art that the child creates. My friend David, coincidentally, will be attending Wheaton College in the fall, where he will be getting his Masters in clinical psychology. Needless to say, there was no shortage of conversation since the two subjects are similar in several ways. Throughout the course of our lunch, David and JP had discussed several books related to their particular fields of study. Seeing that JP was obviously a very intelligent girl that was anxious to learn and grow, I decided to give her some cash to buy one of the books that David suggested, "The Living God & Our Living Psyche" by Dr. Al Dueck. David said that this book would do a great job of introducing the Gospel to JP in an intellectual way that she could really resonate with. So I put the cash in an envelope with the title and author of the book and a little encouraging note. It was a small gesture that could potentially have amazing eternal consequences for JP...I love that God gives us opportunities like this.
Day 24:
On this day I got to make a childhood dream come true for my great friend, Kyle Zimmerman aka "Z". I won't give you any specifics because Z tells the story so much better, so if you know Kyle...ask him about it. If you're reading this Z, I love you big time brother.
Day 25:
Pretty simple day of giving this day...I took of friend of mine in Orlando to dinner.
Day 26:
My buddy, J-Rish, and I went to the beach to enjoy the sun and relax for the afternoon. I had just met J-Rish a few days prior at house church, so it was a great time of getting to know him and his heart. On the way to the beach, we stopped at Subway and I bought his lunch.
Day 27:
J-Rish, Jess, and myself went to a Bellarive concert on this day (I blogged about Bellarive a few weeks ago, so if you haven't checked them out...do it!). After the concert, we went to a pizza place in downtown Orlando and I bought dinner. Jess has recently left for the West Coast to spend her summer investing in high school students, and will be going to Appalachian State in North Carolina this fall to get her Masters degree. Jess, if you're reading this...we miss you already and wish you nothing but the best. Praying for you!
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
40 Days of Giving: Days 18-22
As some of you know, my roommate Scott and I got the new iPhone 4 yesterday. So I decided to use it to give you guys an update of my giving challenge via video. Hope you enjoy it!
Friday, June 18, 2010
The Treasure Principle
My roommate, Matt, recently let me borrow a book entitled "The Treasure Principle" by Randy Alcorn. I started reading it this morning on my flight to Sacramento and read the entire book by the time I landed at my connection in Salt Lake City. This short, 120 page book had me hooked from the start and it radically changed the way I view generosity.
Many of you know that Matt and I are challenging each other to give something away for 30 days in an effort to stretch our hearts in this area. I am days away from completing the challenge, and this book provided 6 key principles that will allow me to turn the 30 day challenge into a LIFESTYLE of giving.
The Treasure Principle is simply this..."You can't take it with you--but you can send it on ahead." Jesus fully unveils what Randy Alcorn calls "The Treasure Principle" in Matthew 6:19-21 which states, "Do not store up for yourselves treasure on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasure in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
You may be asking the same question I asked after reading this passage...What does it look like to store up for yourself treasure in heaven? 1 Timothy 6:18-19 answers that question beautifully, stating "Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life."
Now that you know what the Treasure Principle is, here are the 6 key principles that rocked my world:
1.) God owns everything. I'm His money manager.
We are the managers of the assets God has entrusted--not given--to us.
2.) My heart always goes where I put God's money.
Watch what happens when you reallocate your money from temporal things to eternal things.
3.) Heaven, not earth, is my home.
We are citizens of "a better country--a heavenly one" (Hebrews 11:16)
4.) I should live not for the dot, but for the line.
From the dot, our present life on earth, extends a line that goes on forever, which is eternity in heaven.
5.) Giving is the only antidote for materialism.
Giving is a joyful surrender to a greater person and a greater agenda. It dethrones me and exalts Him.
6.) God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving.
God gives us more money than we need so we can give--generously.
If you desire to grow in the area of giving, please let me know and I will mail you a copy of this life-changing book. As much as this book has blessed me, it would bless me even more to share it with you.
Generosity is infectious...I hope you catch the bug.
James
Many of you know that Matt and I are challenging each other to give something away for 30 days in an effort to stretch our hearts in this area. I am days away from completing the challenge, and this book provided 6 key principles that will allow me to turn the 30 day challenge into a LIFESTYLE of giving.
The Treasure Principle is simply this..."You can't take it with you--but you can send it on ahead." Jesus fully unveils what Randy Alcorn calls "The Treasure Principle" in Matthew 6:19-21 which states, "Do not store up for yourselves treasure on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasure in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
You may be asking the same question I asked after reading this passage...What does it look like to store up for yourself treasure in heaven? 1 Timothy 6:18-19 answers that question beautifully, stating "Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life."
Now that you know what the Treasure Principle is, here are the 6 key principles that rocked my world:
1.) God owns everything. I'm His money manager.
We are the managers of the assets God has entrusted--not given--to us.
2.) My heart always goes where I put God's money.
Watch what happens when you reallocate your money from temporal things to eternal things.
3.) Heaven, not earth, is my home.
We are citizens of "a better country--a heavenly one" (Hebrews 11:16)
4.) I should live not for the dot, but for the line.
From the dot, our present life on earth, extends a line that goes on forever, which is eternity in heaven.
5.) Giving is the only antidote for materialism.
Giving is a joyful surrender to a greater person and a greater agenda. It dethrones me and exalts Him.
6.) God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving.
God gives us more money than we need so we can give--generously.
If you desire to grow in the area of giving, please let me know and I will mail you a copy of this life-changing book. As much as this book has blessed me, it would bless me even more to share it with you.
Generosity is infectious...I hope you catch the bug.
James
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